Sunday, February 13, 2011

The Young and the Restless...

Remember this post a couple years back when I was at the end of my rope with one of my sweet children? Well, to say things got better anytime soon after that post would be a fib. In fact, since that post, things honestly got worse. I took advice from many people and tried everything--a reward chart, reasoning, different forms of discipline and everything in between. Unfortunately, none of it seemed to be working and his behavior was definitely not getting any better.  I was seriously biding my time until preschool started thinking perhaps his teachers would have some miraculous advice for me to help get him to calm down a little. Long story short, after a few months all they could offer me was their sympathy, because they had issues with getting him to be active! His teacher even told me that half the time they wanted to light a fire under his butt; where I, on the other hand, wanted to tape him to the wall half the time!
Don't get me wrong, Austin is not a terrible kid by any means. He is a sweet, kind hearted, fun loving little boy who just has a difficult time listening and focusing. He also has more energy than the Energizer Bunny! He literally bounces out of  bed around 5:30am every morning and is on the go until bedtime at 7:00pm. He fights me big time with going to bed, and sometimes doesn't fall asleep until 9pm. It seems like his little body is constantly moving, and his mind is on overload with thoughts! As we entered into kindergarten, I was worried with how he would handle an entire day in a structured school setting. The first few months of the year went well, and there didn't seem to be any major issues (aside from fighting him everyday about going to school). However, right before Christmas break, issues started to arise. He received 3 write-ups within a 2 weeks span for misbehaving. I immediately called his teacher and spoke with her about his trouble staying on task. Upon hanging up with her, I called our pediatrician and asked for an appointment to have Austin tested for ADD/ADHD.
After reviewing papers filled out by his teacher and myself, a thorough exam with Austin, and a lengthy conversation with me, his doctor concluded that Austin does suffer from ADD and putting him on a daily medication would be beneficial. He started Austin off on the lowest dose to make sure he doesn't have any serious side effects. He takes it once in the morning and it stays in his system for roughly 8 hours. I'm not looking for it to change his personality or turn him into a zombie. It's merely being given to help him stay focused during the school day so he can get his work done and stay on task.

*** Update ***
Although the first week of Austin taking the medication was a little rough (by the time he got off the bus, the medicine was wearing off and he was having meltdowns), 2 months later it is working wonders with him. He's doing much better with sitting still in school during the appropriate times and got rave reviews on his report card! But most importantly, even with taking the medication, he's still the creative little boy that loves to use his imagination and can talk your ear off telling an epic story he's made up :)

Here Comes the Bride...

This past Friday, one of my good friends' and her fiance tied the knot! They are such an adorable couple, and I was so excited to be able to share in their special day with them.
Deanna coming down the stairs...
Deanna and her dad...
Giving the bride away...
Saying vows...
Exchanging rings...
Kissing the bride...
Mr. & Mrs. Matthew Baldwin...
Since the wedding and reception were both held at the same place, there was no traveling involved after the ceremony. Instead, we all got to sit at our tables, have some appetizers & cocktails, and wait for the reception to start. It was rather nice!
Introducing the new Mr. & Mrs....
First dance...
Cutting the cake...
Feeding each other cake...
Once the formal reception things were done, it was on to partying the night away... which we definitely did!
Posing with the bride...
Megan and I...
Me and Deidre...
Abby and myself...
Me and Amanda...
Me, Megan and Mandi...
My girlies: Abby, Deanna, Deidre and Megan...
Auntie Anne's Crew...
Shaking it on the dance floor...
After the reception, the majority of us headed downtown to Burdicks to continue the festivities. Some of us probably should've called it a night before then, but I am not one to name names ;)
  
After a few drinks and a little food, it was time to call it a night! Congrats, Deanna and Matthew! I wish you both all the happiness in the future!!!

Thursday, February 10, 2011

What a Kick! Austin is 6...

As hard as it is for me to believe, Austin is 6 years old! I'm still not quite sure when he grew up, because to me it was in the blink of an eye. It's as if it were yesterday that I was holding him for the first time in my hospital room, and now here he is almost too big to pick up! I love to snuggle with him though and he enjoys it, too. He is such a sensitive little guy and has the biggest heart. Anytime he is given something (food, toy, etc...), he always makes sure to get enough for his brothers and Alexis. His world right now consists of using his imagination... a lot! At home he loves playing with little legos and all his action figures. He also loves to color, draw and play video games. He loves to tell stories as well, and would talk your ear off if given the chance! He's come a long way in school since last year, although he still puts up a fight to go every morning. He's also having some trouble listening and focusing, but he's either at or above average in every subject, so I know he is retaining everything he learns.
For his birthday, we kept things pretty simple since his big birthday party with his brothers is in a few weeks. I dropped cupcakes off for his class for snack in the morning, and then picked him and Andrew up early in the afternoon so we could go to Austin's doctor's appointment (more about that visit in my next post). After we were done there, we went to Pizza Hut for dinner. Both Andrew and Austin had coupons for their own personal pan pizza, so I figured it was perfect timing to use them. Our trip there started out rough because Austin was really hyper from not being able to play outside at school due to the freezing temperatures, so he kept running around the table and jumping all over the chair. Once I finally got him settled, Aaron had a meltdown about something. At that point I just wanted to pack it up and call it a day! But then a sweet woman walked over and asked if all 4 kids were mine. When I said yes, she told the kids what a wonderful mother I was for taking all 4 of them out by myself for a nice dinner and that when she had young kids, she never did that. Things got much better after that, and we were able to eat our pizza dinner with a little less chaos. When we were finished, we headed home to have cake & ice cream and watch Austin open us his presents. I felt bad though, because by the time he opened up his presents, it was bath and bedtime. He was sad he couldn't play with his new toys, but I did promise they would be ready and waiting for him in the morning. He went to bed content with that thought!
Posing with his card...
Unwrapping his present from Andrew...
Opening up his gift from Aaron & Alexis...
Opening up his present from me...
Showing off this new toy...
Happy 6th Birthday, little monkey!!!

Monday, February 7, 2011

Superbowl Commercials...

Anyone that knows me, knows I am not a football fan... at all. But every year, I begrudgingly sit through the game just to watch the clever commercials and halftime show--given it's someone actually worth watching. This year did not disappoint! Although there were far more car commercials than I cared to watch, I found myself laughing a lot throughout the night. And thankfully I had Andrew sitting next to me during the game explaining everything happening on the field. He's really becoming my little sports enthusiast! Anyway, I thought I would share a few of my favorites ads just in case someone missed them. Enjoy!!!
This sooo reminded me of my little Austin...

Classic...

For my Detroit peeps...
For my sister, Megan...

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Snow Day...

The blizzard of 2011 left my boys with a few days off school and a whole lot of energy to burn off! So, this afternoon, I bundled them all up and sent them outside to play in the snow. When Alexis woke up from her nap, I dressed her warmly and took her out for a short while to enjoy the winter wonderland left by Mother Nature, too!
Andrew stuck in a snow pile...
Austin knee deep in snow...
Now trying to dig his way out...
Aaron barely able to walk in the snow...
Andrew taking a break from trudging through the deep the snow...
Austin eating some snow (at the table :)...
Andrew helping Aaron get in a shallow area...
Aaron finally able to navigate through the snow himself...
Alexis enjoying a sleigh ride from Andrew...
Whee...
Andrew tired from pulling his baby sister all around the yard...
Sweet enough to melt my heart (and almost the snow!)...